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Just in time for Valentine’s Day
Feeling a little sentimental as Valentine’s Day approaches? Maybe a recent romance movie put you in the mood to cuddle. Or maybe the cutie that you’ve been daydreaming about is running through your mind nonstop.
Whatever the case, you’re ready to enter your lover’s era—but there’s just one problem: you’re still single.
Don’t stress. Remember: Muses are magnets for everything you want. And if it’s love you desire, it’s love you shall attract.
Here’s our Muse Ever After secret 5-step guide to manifesting your greatest love—starting with the one you have for yourself:
- Romanticize You First
Forget making the typical “list of everything what you want in a lover.” That’s what the locals do. We want our Muses to craft a list of everything you love about yourselves. Every quirk, every imperfection, every little thing that makes you you.
Now, divide that list into two columns. One side: all the things you adore about yourself. The other side: how your dream partner will cherish those same qualities.
Does he smile at your stubborn streak? Trace your scars softly with his fingertips? Feed you snacks when you’re in a horrible mood? Kiss your forehead when you’re anxious? By honing in on these details, you set the frequency for your soulmate to find you.
- Curate Your Love Era Soundtrack
Music is energy, and energy attracts. Create a playlist that embodies the essence of the love you desire. What song will you play while cooking dinner together? Driving at sunset? Dancing in the living room? Or getting lost in each other under the covers?
Play it on repeat—while you shower, work, or take a solo stroll. Even when you’re not paying attention, the vibrations are aligning with the love story you’re manifesting.
- Make Space—Literally
Is your bedroom cluttered? Is the other side of your bed covered in books, a laptop, and last night’s snacks? Clear it out. Make space in your home as if your lover already shares it with you.
Add a masculine touch—maybe a fragrance, a spare pillow, or even an extra toothbrush. Empty a small section of your closet. (Aht Aht–just a small section though, because let’s be real, the closet is still mostly yours.) Your space should feel welcoming for the partner you’re inviting into your world.
- Pamper Yourself Like You’re the Love of Your Life
Too often, us girlies put our needs last. Then, without realizing it, we teach others to do the same. But the key to changing this is, if you want to be treated like a queen, start treating yourself like one.
Make time for your self-care rituals—long baths, deep-conditioning your hair, indulging in your favorite skincare, and moisturizing every inch of your body.
Slip into a piece of lingerie, even if it’s just for you. Because when you start prioritizing yourself, the Universe will send someone who does the same.
- Touch Your Self
We won’t get too naughty, but let’s be real—if you can’t bring pleasure to yourself, how can anyone else?
Now that you’re relaxed, your playlist is on, your space is clean, and you’re feeling yourself get excited by your own touch—why not light some candles, grab a little lube (or a toy), and explore? Imagine your lover tracing every inch of you, whispering, “Let me teach you…“
Because the truth is, the more intimately you know yourself, the more powerful your magnetism becomes.
Final Thoughts
Manifestation isn’t just about wishing—it’s about becoming. Love starts from within, and when you embody the love you desire, it naturally finds its way to you. So get ready, Muse. Your love story is already being written.
